people have said some epic things over the years. this blog is to record my favorites, the ones that speak to me.
also, my fitblr, *Less or More of ME?* is HERE
"Just because one person’s problem is less traumatic than another’s doesn’t mean they’re required to hurt less."
"Instead of saying “I don’t have time” try saying “it’s not a priority,” and see how that feels. Often, that’s a perfectly adequate explanation. I have time to iron my sheets, I just don’t want to. But other things are harder. Try it: “I’m not going to edit your résumé, sweetie, because it’s not a priority.” “I don’t go to the doctor because my health is not a priority.” If these phrases don’t sit well, that’s the point. Changing our language reminds us that time is a choice. If we don’t like how we’re spending an hour, we can choose differently."
"Realizing I deserved better changed everything."
"You realize you are not alone, right? No one in their twenties has life figured out. It’s okay to be a mess. You’re living."
Things my therapist told me today that almost made me burst out into tears. I need to remember this more often. (via michaelassbendr
"Until you make peace with who you are, you’ll never be content with what you have."
"she’s not perfect;
but when we’re lying down
on our bed
and she fits my limbs
when she’s dragging her lips
on my neck
even in her sleep
i guess i’m allowed to boast
that she’s pretty